Key questions 
- What healthy habits do you wish to adopt?
- What unhealthy habits do you want to let go?
​- How did you get to this point in life?
- What were the defining moments/people?
- What is most important in your current story?
- How do you want to finish the race well?

Unhealthy habits you wish to leave behind
  • Eating - too much unhealthy foods
  • Watching - unhealthy video's (that damage relationships and your brain)
  • Spending - when it is fog-buying
  • Escaping - and isolating from life
  • Reacting - out of anger and fear
  • Judging - yourself out of shame
  • Self-centered - vs God centered 

Habits you wish to adopt 
  • Media - good books, podcasts, talks
  • Presence - being present with family / friends
  • Self aware - pausing and reflecting vs reacting
  • Slowing down - experiencing God's grace
  • Fellowship - engaging with a healthy group
  • Exercise - walking / yoga / hiking
  • Eating - more healthy
  • Relaxing - it actually is a thing to do
Services

Coaching sessions -  we provide a structured approach for men who are are finished with the struggles from the overwhelming emotional damage inflicted from excessive pornography and alcohol use and the unhealthy traits that accompany these afflictions (hiding, lying, secrets and an inability to deal with conflict or criticism). 
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Men's groups - men working together to learn how to repair their emotional health, their marriage, shed their obsession or addictions and find fulfillment and joy in life.  
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Personality assessments - take the oldest and most used personality assessment based on the 'Big Five' model.  It will provide quantitative assessments of your scores on humility, extraversion, emotionality, openness, agreeableness and contentiousness.  Click here for more information.  
Coaching principles

In either groups or one on one sessions our approach is to facilitate your journey: where you've been, where you are now, where you want to go, and how you want to get their (changing habits and routines).  Our approach is guided by Dr. Eddie Capparucci's research and approach chronicled in his series of books for men on "Removing Your Shame Label" and "Going Deeper".  

As your coach m role is to provide important questions to consider, encourage you to reach and discover new pathways and push you to look outside your traditional thinking and brainstorm new ideas, approaches and resources that help you reach the next level.


The Journey

Childhood experiences
The source of the pain, triggers and behaviors we experience as adults are a result of childhood wounds, neglect. These intense experiences can go hidden for years and even decades.  Surfacing the issues will provide a solid foundation to build upon.  
Current Life 
Discovering and uncovering the underlying, unhealthy habits, reactions and behaviors is a critical component to long term healing and moving into a more Christ-centered and healthy life.
Finishing the race
One key aspect of changing behavior and the direction of our lives is to develop a long term vision for how you wish to finish the race well.  We will spend time looking at each dimension of your life, untethering you from the bondage(s) of your past, and craft a future that is truly centered on God, family and faith.
Meet your coach

Steve is the principal of Pivotal Insights, LLC working with men in business, career plans and those who are seeking freedom from alcohol dependence  and problematic sexual behaviors.  He is an ardent believer in The Inner Child Recovery Process (ICRP) and trauma model which he employs in his own journey.  

Steve pivoted from his long career helping troubled organizations to focus his efforts on troubled men who want to adopt a healthier life in faith, family, and freedom.  He holds a Masters from UMGC in Management and Technology, and is certified in a number of personality assessment models and coaching methods including the ICRP.  
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Steve believes in the eternal power of God's love, grace and mercy, and that He offers each of us a path to redemption and out of the bondage of self. Steve and his wife Colleen have been married for 44 years to his partner in life, Colleen.  They have three grown children and six grandchildren. 
Steve practices highly-interactive coaching sessions with his clients, helping them think more broadly about a variety of alternatives. His style is to be encouraging and challenging, to think big and get to the practical, and to seek God's wisdom in each interaction. He is confident that each of us have a big dream to achieve, or challenge to conquer and that God will be with you always and guide you on this journey.

​- Steve
Contact:
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questions: email us at - help.pivotal@gmail.com